Which makes it sound less like a charity and more like an army fighting a war.

Despite the airstrike of chemo and radiation, we were fighting a war that could not be won.

She loved me enough to let me go fight a war in a faraway country because my conscience was pulling me there.

You might be forgiven for forgetting we are fighting a war, too.

The glib answer is that there cannot be, because it takes two to fight a war.