to keep (also observe) measure(s) (also a measure): to be moderate or restrained in action. †to keep measures with: to show consideration towards…

Absence of extremes; moderation. in a mean: with moderation. to use a mean: to exercise moderation. Obsolete.

Easy-going (in various senses); relaxed, casual, leisurely.

to pull one's punches: (figurative) to use less force than one is capable of exerting; to be gentle or lenient, esp. in criticism. Frequently in…

to go slow: to proceed cautiously or gradually; to act without haste or rashness. Also (chiefly with on or with): to use with moderation.