incompetent or badly organized; mentally or emotionally unstable
untogether in American English
(ˌuntuˈɡeðər)
adjective
slang
disorganized; confused; chaotic
Right after the divorce was a very untogether time for me
Word origin
[1965–70; un-1 + together]This word is first recorded in the period 1965–70. Other words that entered Englishat around the same time include: Coriolis effect, T cell, overdub, red-eye, stun gunun- is a prefix meaning “not,” freely used as an English formative, giving negative oropposite force in adjectives and their derivative adverbs and nouns (unfair; unfairly; unfairness; unfelt; unseen; unfitting; unformed; unheard-of; un-get-at-able), and less freely used in certain other nouns (unrest; unemployment)