nonnormative
adjective
non·nor·ma·tive ˌnän-ˈnȯr-mə-tiv 
: not conforming to, based on, or employing norm : not normative
nonnormative expressions of gender
Example Sentences
Recent Examples on the Web But the piece was also about Mr. Hoghe himself, his memories of history and reflections on his own nonnormative body. 
Roslyn Sulcas, New York Times, 31 May 2021 Having a nonnormative gender identity and preferring the use of nonstandard pronouns means that I am often misgendered by people who have just met me. Lucy Parks, Outside Online, 22 Jan. 2020
Roslyn Sulcas, New York Times, 31 May 2021 Having a nonnormative gender identity and preferring the use of nonstandard pronouns means that I am often misgendered by people who have just met me. Lucy Parks, Outside Online, 22 Jan. 2020 Word History
First Known Use
1909, in the meaning defined above