know where you are/stand

know where (one) is with (someone or something)

1. To know how one is regarded or perceived by someone. I think I did well in the interview, but I wish I knew where I was with the recruiter.2. To know one's position or views on some topic. I'm opposed to this measure, but does anyone know where the boss is with it?See also: know

know where (one) stands

1. To know how one is regarded or perceived by someone else. I think I did well in the interview, but I wish I knew where I stood with the recruiter.2. To know one's position or views on some topic. I'm opposed to this measure, but does anyone know where the boss stands on it?See also: know, stand

know where you ˈare/ˈstand

know what your position is; know what somebody expects of you: I don’t know where I stand with him. I don’t know what he feels about me.Has she talked to you about your chances of promotion? Do you know where you stand?See also: know, stand