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you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drinkYou can give someone an advantage or provide them with an opportunity, but you can't force them to do something if they don't want to. A: "I just don't understand. We've given him the very best education and introduced him to the right people, but he just won't pursue a meaningful career." B: "Well, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink."See also: but, can, drink, horse, lead, makeyou can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drinkEven favorable circumstances won't force one to do something one doesn't want to, as in We've gotten all the college catalogs but he still hasn't applied-you can lead a horse to water . This metaphoric term dates from the 12th century and was in John Heywood's proverb collection of 1546. It is so well known that it is often shortened, as in the example. See also: but, can, drink, horse, lead, make, water |