paternalize
/pəˈtəːnəlʌɪz/ /pəˈtəːn(ə)lʌɪz/(also paternalise)
verb
[with object] To treat in a paternalistic manner. Also without object: to behave in a paternalistic manner.
Origin
Late 19th century; earliest use found in The North American Review. From paternal + -ize, after paternalism.