not know whether one is coming or going

not know whether (one) is coming or going

To be in a state of confusion or chaos, especially due to being very busy or overwhelmed. Lisa has been so busy getting everything ready for the party, she doesn't know whether she's coming or going. I have so many appointments today, I don't know whether I'm coming or going anymore.See also: coming, going, know, not

not know whether one is coming or going

see under coming or going. See also: coming, going, know, not, one